May 2, 2019 / Sharon McKee

What to Wear to a Wedding This Summer | Are You a Best-Dressed Guest?

This is the fourth post in our feature series, OBJ Weddings.

I just received a save-the-date for a July wedding, and I’m invited to two more in June…help! It’s that time of year when we’re all looking for advice on what to wear to a wedding ceremony and reception. Here are several best-dressed wedding guest looks you’ll love.

The Elegant Guest


Summer Stripes by Rosie Assoulin. Photo Courtesy of modaoperandi.com

Summer Stripes by Rosie Assoulin. Photo Courtesy of ModaOperandi.com



Swarovski Tangerine and Navy Crystal Drop Earrings, $25, at amazon.com

Swarovski Orange and Navy Drop Earrings , $25, at Amazon.com


If your wedding invitation says Black Tie, you can definitely pull out all the stops and wear a long gown or sheath. Cocktail dresses (not too bare), sparkling separates, and dressy jumpsuits or pantsuits are also acceptable.

For Semi-formal weddings, most guests forgo the long gown and choose a cocktail dress, a fancy skirt and top, or an “evening” pantsuit.


Ball Skit and Lace Top. Photo Courtesy of @thehummingcloset

Ball Skirt and Lace Top, available @thehummingcloset



Blue Crustal Drop Earrings, $129, at Swarovski.com

Blue Crystal Drop Earrings, $129, at Swarovski.com


I bought an ice-blue silk skirt with a white lace top to wear to a June 14 wedding. I’m having the long skirt tailored to tea length, which is more appropriate for the happy couple’s Semi-formal affair.

OBJ Tip: If you’re not sure how to decode the dress code terminology on a wedding invitation, such as Black Tie, Formal, Semi-formal, or Wedding Casual, check out this helpful guide from  Bride’s magazine. It clearly explains what to wear to a wedding for each of these invitation directives (and for the men in your life too!).

The Classic Guest


Jacquard Fit & Flare Dress by Eliza J at Nordstrom

Jacquard Fit & Flare Dress by Eliza J. Photo Courtesy of Nordstrom.com


Mezzo 18K Gold Plated Huggie Hoops at BaubleBar.

Mezzo 18K Gold-Plated Huggie Hoops, $58, at BaubleBar


Daytime weddings tend to be less formal than those with evening receptions. A classic fit-and-flare dress will give you options, especially if you find one with a matching jacket. You can dress this versatile silhouette up or down with your best jewelry and accessories.


Cecilie Bahnsen Organza Dress

Cecilie Bahnsen Organza Dress. Photo Courtesy of ModaOperandi.com



Lacey Statement Necklace at BaubleBar

Lacey Statement Necklace, $38, at BaubleBar


Are you most comfortable in an LBD? Go for it! These days black is totally acceptable at a wedding any time of day or night. In either case, I would give basic black a chic update with leg-lengthening nude pumps or sandals, and finish things off with timeless pearls and gold hoops.

The Boho Guest


Johanna Ortiz Red Gold Garden Rose Floral Silk Dress. Photo Courtesy of modaoperandi.com

Johanna Ortiz Floral Silk Dress. Photo Courtesy of Moda Operandi


Costa Single Shell Earring, at Baublebar

Costa Single Shell Earring, $18, at BaubleBar


For more casual weddings, including outdoor and beach weddings, you can’t go wrong in a festive midi or maxi dress. This season’s crop is the best in years…especially from Tory Burch, Johanna Ortiz, and Anthropologie.

I’m craving a ruffled red print dress, which I’ll wear with a top-handle bag and strappy sandals. (I love stilettos, but flats or kitten heels are best for dancing.)


prabal gurung print shar cutout midi dress, perfect for what to wear to a wedding this summer

Prabal Gurung Print Midi Dress. Photo Courtesy of Moda Operandi


large Alessandra rich gold white and gold seashell clip earrings

Alessandra Rich Crystal-Embellished Gold Seashell Clip Earrings, $365, at Moda Operandi


I’ll layer on a Boho combo of pearl and coin necklaces, or summery shell earrings by Alessandra Rich or BaubleBar.

P.S. Have you noticed that many of this season’s wedding-perfect looks have pockets? It’s such a bonus! Teen Vogue reports that 2019 prom dress shoppers are looking for dresses with pockets to carry their cell phones.

But that’s another story for another day….


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Something Blue: Diamond Dazzle Stik

While we’re all in the wedding mindset, let me tell you about a “something blue” must-have that is certain to become a lifelong habit. If you’re close to the bride, or hosting her shower, be sure to give her and her guests a Connoisseurs Diamond Dazzle Stik.

This portable, mascara-sized jewelry cleaning wand will help keep everyone’s diamond rings (and precious stones) as sparkling as the day they were bought. A recent article on Yahoo! Lifestyle praised the Diamond Dazzle Stik as a “miracle worker,” with over 1,600 favorable reviews on Amazon.com. Have a dazzling wedding season![/dropshadowbox]


Diamond Dazzle Stik, The Quickest Sparkle Ever!


This article is part of our ongoing OBJ Wedding Series. Click here to read other articles in the series.

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